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How to Balance Your Nervous System with Sound

Sound and breathwork can help regulate the nervous system, reduce stress, ease anxiety, and restore a sense of inner balance. Discover how to balance the nervous system with sound, vibration, breath, and therapeutic music.

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Re-wilding the Self

I recently came across the book Wilding by Isabella Tree. It is a story about how letting go can allow life to return to it’s own rhythm. Where do you find your peace? Your rhythm?

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10 Ways to Impact Positive Change in an Effed Up World

Tension and conflict are ever-present in today’s polarizing world. But if we want a different solution, we have to do something different. Here, Valarie shares her ideas for approaching difficult moments with love, patience, and empathy.

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Reclaiming The Story We Live Inside

There comes a moment in many women’s lives when we realize that the story we’ve been living by is no longer the one we want to carry forward.

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Calm in the Chaos

Big transitions offer us a path into the next chapter of our lives. However, crossing that threshold with presence and gratitude is never easy. Learn more about my recent change and the meditation I use to find calm in the chaos.

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Awakening the Light

Valarie reflects on Candlemas, the halfway point through winter that celebrates the coming of longer days and a shift in energy.

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St. Lucia Bearer of Light

The original St. Lucia was a young Christian martyr who lived in Sicily, Italy in the 4th century. She was known for her love and kindness. The St. Lucia tradition can be traced back to the time of the Roman Empire.

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Wise Women Share These Five Traits

What makes a woman truly wise? In this reflection, Valarie shares the timeless traits of women who lead with grace, depth, and intuition. From fierce boundaries to deep listening, these qualities are cultivated and offer a pathway to embodying your own wisdom with courage and compassion.

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Elements of a Secret Garden

Inspired by the wonder of The Secret Garden, this piece invites you to reimagine what is possible behind hedges, gates, and winding paths. Valarie shares the essential elements of a secret garden, from hidden doors and scent-filled entryways to sacred inner sanctums for rest and reflection. These spaces are more than beautiful. They are places of healing, imagination, and connection to your inner self.

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Magic of A Swedish Midsummer

On the island of Gotland, where my family roots run deep, Midsummer is more than a celebration. From the early morning swim to the raising of the Maypole and the taste of strawberry sponge cake during fika, every moment is infused with magic and meaning. This story is a reflection on what it means to welcome the fullness of summer with open arms, surrounded by loved ones and the beauty of tradition.

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Let’s Create a Fredagsmys (Cozy Friday) Routine

Inspired by summers in Sweden and the warmth of her grandmother’s forest bed, Valarie reflects on the timeless joy of mys, deep, soul-soothing coziness. From Oregon rain to desert nights in New Mexico, this piece invites you to craft your own fredagsmys ritual.

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Sometimes, You Need to Go With The Flow

A reflective river journey becomes a metaphor for life in this story about letting go, embracing the unknown, and learning to trust the current. Discover how water teaches us to release, transform, and thrive by simply going with the flow.

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The Threads that Bind Us: Mending the Weave

I’ve spent the last two years doing intensive ancestral healing work so that the next generation and those that follow can use new patterns and the toxic dysfunctional ones can be laid to rest.

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